We may not always know the answers to why? Therefore, we must believe in our faith to be okay with not knowing why.
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20 Sunday Dec 2020
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in20 Sunday Dec 2020
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inWe may not always know the answers to why? Therefore, we must believe in our faith to be okay with not knowing why.
19 Saturday Dec 2020
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inWhen I’m feeling lost, I love to pick a random page from the Bible to guide me for the day – faith shows the reality of what we hope for, it’s the evidence of things we cannot see – Hebrew 11:1
18 Friday Dec 2020
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inNever give up because you don’t know what tomorrow may bring – look for a new experience.
17 Thursday Dec 2020
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inIn times of darkness we have to remember that with darkness – also comes light.
16 Wednesday Dec 2020
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inAt times life may seem uncertain, but all we can do is trust in our faith and our journey.
15 Tuesday Dec 2020
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inA cheerful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit saps a person’s strength – Proverbs 17:22
14 Monday Dec 2020
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inWhen is it okay to be okay? I’m always preaching that it’s okay to NOT be okay, but sometimes we need to accept that it IS okay to be okay.
The other day I decorated the house for the holidays, which initially I did not want to do, not with the way this past year has played out for me. The past five Christmas’ I have wanted to sleep through, but this year I said, enough is enough. I am so sick of being so sad, that I want to get life back to normal, or as normal as it will ever be.
So…I decided to decorate and celebrate the holidays. People may look at me and say “SHE’S okay” and they can think what they want. They don’t see me crying every day, the social anxiety I carry around with me wherever I go, or the sadness that lives deep-down, inside my heart that won’t go away.
Why do I feel guilty for wanting to be okay, if at least for one day or maybe two? I’m making a choice, to be okay sometimes, but then again, it is okay to not be okay sometimes too. We need to learn to have compassion for ourselves, as well as for others. Love ourselves, because if we can’t, then who can!
28 Saturday Nov 2020
Posted Just a PERFECT Thought
inWhen someone would say to me that suicide is selfish, I was the first person to jump down their throats, denying such a thoughtless accusation. My view point was that a person who has completed suicide was an unselfish person because they had stayed with us as long as they had because of their deep love for us – despite their tremendous emotional pain.
However, now that I have lost two loved ones to suicide, I now have a different perspective. I do think, that while they are in their moment of planning, that are being very selfish. Well, isn’t that the definition of being selfish, lacking consideration for others? Isn’t that exactly what they are doing?
I have been in the darkness and understand the pain of wanting it to all end, so I guess you can say I have been on both sides of suicide – the only difference is that I haven’t completed it, so I can’t say what they are thinking at that exact moment.
However, I do know that we have a duty to our loved ones to stay. We are the ones left behind, with ruined lives, living with the pain, asking ourselves why, and what if… They got their out, but now we are stuck with the destruction left behind, and that kind of pain never goes away.
It’s our responsibility to our loved ones to protect their heart and suicide is NOT an option. And don’t say….you don’t understand because I do…sadly I do understand – I wish I didn’t.
27 Friday Nov 2020
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inIt’s such a simple comment, but so powerful too. Just Stay!
26 Thursday Nov 2020
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inHappy Thanksgiving! Sometimes we may not see our blessings, because we are experiencing our loss, but if we look through the sorrow and see the blessings, then we are all blessed, but we have to see the blessings…all though it is hard, we must have faith.