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30 Tuesday Jul 2013
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30 Tuesday Jul 2013
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25 Thursday Jul 2013
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The Importance of Food Banks:
I was asked to bring in some canned goods tomorrow at work for the Food Bank. This is an important cause, helping thousands of women and children who do not have enough to eat. A luxury many of us take for granted.
Most people will go through their cupboards searching for unwanted canned goods; such as creamed corn, kidney beans, and hominy. What makes us think that the poor likes this selection of canned goods anymore than we do. Seriously, how long did it actually sit in our cupboards?
Trust me…I was one of these people, until my daughter said to me, “Mom, why would anyone like this food. The poor likes to eat good food too, just like us.”
She made me think. Let’s look for canned goods that are good to eat, not just search our cupboards for canned goods that we don’t want.
There is more to giving than just getting the canned goods together. It is up to us to give from our hearts and not just out of obligation.
Did I search my cupboard tonight for canned goods that have been sitting on my shelf for the past few years? No. I went to the store and bought some food that I thought others would like as much as I do. This is the true meaning of giving…give from the heart.
Written By: Ask Ms Mandi
23 Tuesday Jul 2013
Posted in Excerpt from Manuscript - Dear Paxton
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Excerpt from Manuscript – Dear Paxton
Lisa was awoken by screams coming from the kitchen, followed by the sound of shattering glass. She ran out into the kitchen to see her mother sitting on the tile floor, sobbing with her head down on her knees. Lying beside her was a note that Mimi had left behind that morning.
“How could she, how could she do this to me?” All Lisa could do was to sit down on the floor next to her mother, while comforting her the best that she knew how.
“What’s the matter? What happened?” Lisa asked.
“Your sister just left me this note.” Shirley handed the note to Lisa, waiting patiently as she read through it, two times before understanding the contents of the words.
Written By: Ask Ms Mandi
21 Sunday Jul 2013
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Drive, Focus, Hope, Jobs, perseverance, Search, Unemployment
Going Back to Work
Going to work after two years…
When I first got laid off in July 2011, I never imagined I would be out of work for almost, exactly, two years. When I first got laid off, I was excited to have time off to do what I wanted to do. I decided to write my second book, Julian’s Voice: A Ruby in the Rough. I planned a year to complete my manuscript. I was lucky enough to have unemployment during that time.
A year later and I had my completed manuscript, Julian’ Voice: A Ruby in the Rough. I was so excited. I continued to search for the perfect agent for my work, as I started looking for full-time employment as an Accountant. I knew having a Master’s Degree would make my search that much easier. Oh… how wrong I was.
It took me another year to finally find the perfect job, that I liked and that paid what I was expecting to be paid.
It has been a two-year process from start to finish. I never expected to be out of work for so long, especially with the kind of education that I have.
My point is…stay focused, driven, and hopeful. Perseverance really does pay off. Continue to fight for what you believe in and in what you want. I now have the perfect job…now all I have to find is the perfect publisher for my manuscript. It shouldn’t be so hard…
Written By: Ask Ms Mandi
18 Thursday Jul 2013
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14 Sunday Jul 2013
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How to Present Yourself to a Potential Employer:
I have been interviewing with potential employers for the past year. Is our economy getting better or am I just getting better at interviewing? Maybe a little of both, is safe to say.
I discovered three things that I did differently in my last interview…that I might add; I got the job.
This is for the ladies:
First: Wear a pant suit instead of a dress or skirt. Women, we are still living in a man’s world, especially if you are working in Corporate America. A nice pant suit with high heels shows that you are still feminine, but carry power. Men like power.
Second: Give a firm handshake. Show them that you are confident and strong. A flimsy handshake shows submission.
Third: Be yourself. This is the one and only interview where I wore my hair down straight. Nothing fancy or prissy.
And always have good eye contact and a strong self-esteem.
Good luck!
Written By: Ask Ms Mandi
09 Tuesday Jul 2013
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Is Editing Ever Complete?
I currently have one of my manuscripts out to an agent, but received an e-mail from another agent that I had submitted to earlier in the month. She had the typical rejection response, “Thank you for your submission, but we are going to pass on your project. It doesn’t fit into our list of projects, but please continue to contact other agents.” However, this particular rejection letter was a little different. It stated, “please continue to edit and submit to other agents.”
This made me laugh out loud. “Please continue to edit.” I guess that was a nice way of stating that my first fifty pages of my manuscript needed continued editing. When is the editing complete? I had read through my manuscript at least three times already. I have to admit that I find an editing error here and there each time I read it, but when will the editing be perfect?
I think this an impossible task. Writing styles change. It’s just like when I use to model. I was never perfect for ever agent. One agent said my eyes were too big and another agent said my eyes were perfect, but my height was too short. Nothing I ever did made me perfect under ever circumstance.
All I can say is to edit your manuscript several times and then put it away. Take it back out and edit it one more time…now submit it to agents. When an agent likes it, they will pick it up…even with a few grammatical or spelling errors.
Good luck!
Written By: Ask Ms Mandi
02 Tuesday Jul 2013
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Broken, Children, City, County, Employment, Jobs, Legislation, Mothers, Poor, Slavery, Unemployment, Welfare Reform, Women
Welfare to Work or is it?
Today when I was at the park with my dog, I overheard two women talking about this welfare to work program. I will call them Ann and Mary for clarification.
Ann was telling Mary about how she has had to be on public assistance since her husband died. She was complaining about how she had very little time to look for work and take care of her children. She went on to explain to Mary that the welfare department required her to volunteer 30 hours a week of her time in order to receive her small cash assistance of $600 a month.
Mary couldn’t believe that Ann had to volunteer for 30 hours a week. “Wow, that is a lot of time to give to a company…will they hire you after you do this?”
Ann went on to explain that there were no guarantees to employment. She had never known anyone who actually got hired from volunteering their time.
“Ann, didn’t you volunteer for the county?” Mary asked.
“Yes, I did. I volunteered for six months and they said that once a job opened that I would have the opportunity to interview for the position, but a job never opened and I got transferred to another county job.” Ann replied.
“That’s horrible, Ann. What are you going to do?” Mary asked in despair.
“I don’t know Mary. I can’t do this anymore.” Ann broke down, crying on Mary’s shoulder with tears streaming down her face.
This situation is all too true. When you break down the figures of 30 hours per week for 4 weeks and divide it into $600 per month…it comes to $5 per hour. That isn’t even minimum wage.
Employers…especially the county and city jobs are taking advantage of these broken women. How sad for them. It seems like a form a modern-day slavery to me.
Please hit like if you would like to see a change in this work to welfare program.
Written By: Ask Ms Mandi
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